It has been really long since I wrote something and I have missed it terribly. I came across somebody's post recently where this person talked about how women take the second name of their partners after marriage and why it doesn't make any sense to them. And then everybody else jumping in giving their 2 piece including me. It amazes how we demand freedom of choice against a particular tradition, custom etc. but are quick to criticize the person who chooses to follow them. Doesn't that person have the same freedom of choice to follow the tradition? Just like the ones who do not want to follow! Freedom of choice is a very vast term where we must respect each and every individual's life choices as long as its not something illegal or is not harming them. How about we think twice before judging somebody else's life choices when we don't want to be judged for ours?